• Samantha Hearne

Blame is a Distraction from Responsibility

I'll say it again for those in the back.

Blame is a distraction from responsibility…

There are only two ways to truly move forward (and neither of which are blame):

1. Ownership

2. Responsibility

Now, I’m not saying that other people are never to blame.

Absolutely not.

However, I am saying that the only person that can move you forward, live your life, create the success you dream of, change your life, move mountains is you.

So unless you take ownership of your life and then take responsibility for how you choose to live it, what you focus on, what you give your energy - what you truly deserve won’t be able to shine through. Because you are too focussed on what someone else is or isn’t doing, how they are living or not living, how they run their business or don’t run their business.

But the bottom line is this - only YOU live your life & can truly change what happens next. What has happened before now is gone - but what’s to come is totally your call.

*I say this from experience and with love.

This is truly what changed it for me.

If you're too consumed with how someone else is showing up, creating success, living their life - all that is taking away from, is the attention you are giving your own.

It's time to start OWNING IT and embrace your own power to create the life and future you desire right now and in order to do that.

You must claim it first.

If things aren't going the way you want or results are happening in the way you’d planned - let’s start claiming and changing things.


1. I am no longer available for (insert type of clients that don’t align with you)

2. I am no longer available for (insert way of thinking/energy that’s holding you back)

3. I am longer available for (inset a fear that you keep listening to)

Let’s start claiming it to change it.